Some are quick to dismiss the writings of Paul as being male chauvinistic when he says, “... so is the husband the head of his wife... and ... so should wives submit to their husbands, in everything”. However, a closer reading of the text in its proper context will reveal the real meaning to be quite different.

To begin with, Paul’s analogy of the relationship of Christ and His bride, the Church, with that of the relationship between a husband and wife, is drawn from the Old Testament. Prophets like Hosea, Isaiah and Ezekiel made similar analogies comparing the intimate relationship between God and Israel with the love of a husband and wife.

Therefore, by comparison itself, such a relationship is sacred. Further, a deeper study of the text points to equality, mutual love and respect, selfless sacrifice and fidelity. It is when husbands and wives live thus, that they become the leaven in the dough, working towards making the kingdom of God a reality.